Genuine: The Alpha Daddy of the Blogosphere
I started this blog in April of 2004, because my friend Wes told me to, and never imagined that anyone else would be interested in reading it. It was just a diary at first, and then it became a voice, and then it turned into, well, me. I didn’t have a clue how to go about most of what blogging entailed, and I was greatly helped along the way by someone who is now a good friend, and I want to tell him, “Thank you.”
Remember Blog Explosion? I found many friends there.
One of the first internet friends I made was a lovely gentleman named Jim Turner, who blogged as Genuine. As Genuine, Jim is truly the Alpha Daddy of the Blogosphere, for his was the first really popular Daddy Blog. Jim has encouraged countless numbers of people find personal expression by blogging, and his example inspired other fathers to become bloggers, as well.
Genuine took a break from his personal blog for a while – his business blogs took up so much time, there wasn’t much energy left for his personal blog – but now he’s back.
Yes, Genuine is back.
Jim blogs about his children, his marriage, his work, his problems, and all the ups and downs that being a busy parent in today’s world can entail. Sometimes his blog is funny; sometimes, his blog is full of advice; sometimes, his blog is heartbreaking. Whatever his topic, Jim writes from the heart, and his love for his wife and children shines between every line. He blogs about his mistakes, and his successes, and he lets us see his family play and hug and laugh and cry. His home’s windows were the first ones in the Blogosphere that I peeked through, and when I got to meet him and Michelle and the kids a few years ago, I felt like I’d known them for ages.
It would make me very happy if you would all step over to Jim’s blog and tell him how glad you are that he’s blogging as Genuine again. He helped start the blogging community; he was greatly missed; and now, Genuine has returned.
Thank you, Jim, for all you have done for me. I GENUINELY appreciate it.
Quotation Saturday
Yes, indeed, another week has come and gone and it’s time for Quotation Saturday once again!
1. It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish. –Mother Teresa
2. Rudeness is the weak man’s imitation of strength. –Eric Hoffer
3. True remorse is never just a regret over consequences; it is a regret over motives. — Mignon McLaughlin
4. The knowledge of the world is only to be acquired in the world, and not in a closet. –Lord Chesterfield
5. There isn’t anyone you couldn’t love once you’re heard their story. –Mary Lou Kownacki
6. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. — Thomas Edison
7. Something you consider bad may bring out your child’s talents; something you consider good may stifle them. –Chateaubriand
8. How much pain they have cost us, the evils which have never happened. –Thomas Jefferson
9. Many men go fishing all of their lives without knowing that it is not fish they are after. –Henry David Thoreau
10. We are more often treacherous through weakness than through calculation. –Francois De La Rochefoucauld
11. A man with one watch knows what time it is; a man with two watches is never quite sure. –Lee Segall
12. Begin at the beginning and go on till you come to the end; then stop. –Lewis Carrol, Alice in Wonderland
13. Believe those who are seeking the truth. Doubt those who find it. –Andre Gide
14. Beware lest you lose the substance by grasping at the shadow. –Aesop
15. There’s more to the truth than just the facts. –Author Unknown
16. Losing an illusion makes you wiser than finding a truth. –Ludwig Börne
17. If a man who cannot count finds a four-leaf clover, is he lucky? –Stanislaw J. Lec
18. The obscure we see eventually. The completely obvious, it seems, takes longer. –Edward R. Murrow
19. Alice came to a fork in the road. “Which road do I take?” she asked.
“Where do you want to go?” responded the Cheshire cat.
“I don’t know,” Alice answered.
“Then,” said the cat, “it doesn’t matter.”
–Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland
20. Each forward step we take we leave some phantom of ourselves behind. –John Lancaster Spalding
21. The scars you can’t see are the hardest to heal. –Astrid Alauda
22. The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth. –Niels Bohr
23. Who is more foolish, the child afraid of the dark or the man afraid of the light? –Maurice Freehill
24. Genuine tragedies in the world are not conflicts between right and wrong. They are conflicts between two rights. –Georg Hegel
25. A stumble may prevent a fall. –English Proverb
26. The society which scorns excellence in plumbing because plumbing is a humble activity, and tolerates shoddiness in philosophy because philosophy is an exalted activity, will have neither good plumbing nor good philosophy. Neither its pipes nor its theories will hold water. — John W. Gardner
27. Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry, the philosophy which does not laugh, and the greatness which does not bow before children. –Kahil Gibran
28. He who postpones the hour of living is like the rustic who waits for the river to run out before he crosses. –Horace
29. This is my living faith, an active faith, a faith of verbs: to question, explore, experiment, experience, walk, run, dance, play, eat, love, learn, dare, taste, touch, smell, listen, argue, speak, write, read, draw, provoke, emote, scream, sin, repent, cry, kneel, pray, bow, rise, stand, look, laugh, cajole, create, confront, confound, walk back, walk forward, circle, hide, and seek. To seek: to embrace the questions, be wary of answers. -Terry Tempest Williams
30. Those who never retract their opinions love themselves more than they love truth. -Joseph Joubert,
31. To find a person who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. -Robert Brault
32. The Sun, with all the planets revolving around it, and depending on it, can still ripen a bunch of grapes as though it had nothing else in the Universe to do. — Galileo
34. The next time you feel like God can’t use you, just remember that Noah was a drunk; Abraham was too old; Isaac was a daydreamer; Jacob was a liar; Leah was ugly; Joseph was abused; Moses had a stuttering problem; Gideon was afraid; Samson had long hair and was a womanizer; Rahab was a prostitute; Jeremiah and Timothy were too young; David had an affair and was a murderer; Elijah was suicidal; Isaiah preached naked; Jonah ran from God; Naomi was a widow; Job went bankrupt; Peter denied Christ; The Disciples feel asleep while praying; Martha worried about everything; Mary Magdalene was a prostitute; The Samaritan woman was divorced more than once; Zaccheus was too small; Paul was too religious; Timothy had an ulcer, and Lazarus was DEAD. Now, no more excuses! Besides, you’re not the message; you’re just the messenger. –Author Unknown
35. It is better to break one’s heart than to do nothing with it. –Margaret Kennedy
36. I shall never permit myself to stoop so low as to hate any man. –Booker T. Washington
37. We should take care not to make the intellect our god; it has, of course, powerful muscles, but no personality. –Einstein
38. I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, that they will be forced to deal with pain. –James Baldwin
39. The wise man is informed in what is right. The inferior man is informed in what will pay. –Confucious
40. When things go wrong, don’t go with them. –Author Unknown
41. Flee the wicked, even when they are agreeable, constructive, and charming. –Eugene Delacroix
42. Weak men are apt to be cruel, because they stick at nothing that may repair the ill effect of their mistakes. –Lord Halifax
43. Anyone who can walk to the welfare office can walk to work. –Al Capp
44. Women over thirty are at their best, but men over thirty are too old to recognize it. –Jean-Paul Belmondo
45. No bird soars too high, if he soars with his own wings. –William Blake
46. The reason some men do not succeed is because their wishbone is where their backbone ought to be. –Author Unknown
47. When I’m asked why Southern writers particularly have a penchant for writing about freaks, I say it’s because we are still able to recognize one. –Flannery O’Connor
48. He who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe is as good as dead; his eyes are closed. –Einstein
49. The world is full of wooden people who are always doing their best to whittle others down. –Thomajan
50. War does not determine who is right, but who is left. –Andrew Goligowski
I have been collecting quotations since I was a teenager, and that was a long time ago. You may therefore assume that I have amassed a lot of quotations. You would be correct.
It’s just that so often, someone puts together a few words, and you read them, and suddenly your whole life has changed. Just a few words, and the world is a different place.
This is why we call it the Language ARTS, you know. Done properly, it’s as much of an art as music, or sculpture, or dancing, or painting. And what is an art but something that makes us look more closely at that which we thought we already knew. And then, stand away from it and look again.
Will Clean For Guests
It’s after nine p.m. and I’m still not in the mood to tackle the family room downstairs. Around midnight the obsession will hit, and you will find me down there on my knees putting things away, packing things, and generally making the biggest room in the house presentable. I always do my best work late, late, late at night. I’m just wired like a vampire that, I guess.
I’ve not been in there since the flood, and the furniture is still in the middle of the room and there are boxes of “things” everywhere. I’ve been avoiding it like the plague but now it needs to be dealt with.
You know, I really don’t mind housework; in fact, I like it. It’s just that the mood never hits me until the wee sma’s and then I have to work quietly because the normal people who live here are sleeping. If I have to work quietly, I won’t work. I don’t do “a cappella” very well; I need my accompaniment. But I’m going down there tonight and I’m going to make that room beautiful again. To music.
I’m having company, and I know there’s an air hockey table and a big box of cool toys down there somewhere. I just have to start putting things away properly until I uncover them.
And before I do ANYTHING down there, I have to vacuum thoroughly, because the cats continued to play in that room even while the carpets were soaked and the water was up to their ticklish little bellies, and now there are little heaps of dried hairballs all over the floor. I see myself emptying the sweeper cannister about six times before I’m done. Oh, were you eating? I’m sorry.
When I finally go to bed tonight, the family room will once again look nice.
I can’t wait. I love company.
LOVE it.






